friendship... lite
is it better to cut off a friendship with sever limitations or simply downgrade it to the low-cal version?
friendship lite
unfortunately active ingredients: idontcalltocancelwithenoughnoticethat-
youareabletomakefallbackplansosis, reallyiliketositonthelapofanymanin-
thevicinityincludingyourboyfriendandwigglemyheinyarroundonhislaposis,
itsallaboutmemememeMEosis, nonewsisgoodnewswhenitsyournewsbecauseits-
allaboutmynewsosis, taketaketakeytimeosis, iliketoembarasassyouwithoersonaldetailsinmixedcompanyosis,
youdonttotallytrustmeandyourarenotsurehwybutyouhaveapretty-
goodfeelingyouarerightnottoosis, promiseisjustawordandmeansnothingtomeosis, yesimyoungerandthinnerthanyouandtakeeveryopportunitytopointthatshitoutinfront-
ofboysosis
posted by Christ Ina @ 1:23 PM
2 YOU SAID:
Egad. That sounds like a friend to take time out from.
You don't necessarily need to completely divorce yourself from this person, but sounds to me it would be in your best interests to cease interacting without explanation for an indefinite period of time.
If she ever cares why you're not hanging with her anymore, you might consider telling her--if she really does want to know. I imagine it would hurt--I've been in a similar situation, so I didn't tell until she demanded--it made her cry.
Should her selfish behavior ever diminish to the point that she recognizes that is really spoils your friendship with her, and apologizes for her actions, there may be room for a continued friendship. But that's for the future to tell: For the time being, again, I might say, Cease ties!
o no ben! thanks- but that is a combinaish of a bunch of shitty friends over the years. thou the flake and the lap sitter are one and the same... thanks tho- i'm pretty tolerant but not at all a doormat.
happy new year!
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